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How are you showing up for yourself? As I am sure you know, we are always our toughest critic. We are ridiculously hard on ourselves when it comes to our bodies. How we look. How we see ourselves. You know the drill. There is not …
live your life with purpose
The lady in the blue dress. It’s been a rough week. There have been so many deaths recently. It’s hard. I feel for the families. Just in the last month death has touched so many families of people I went to school with. It makes …
Lifestyle changes – what makes a person want to change their lifestyle? Because they want to lose weight? A health scare? Because they want to? Because they want to gain weight? All good reasons. All reasons you may want to change.
One thing that we seem to forget in this journey of changing is that these are lifestyle changes. Changing our life. Changing how we do things. We forget that this is a forever thing. There is no finish line when it comes to getting healthier and wanting to better our life. We tend to think of this as diet lifestyle. Diet lifestyle needs to go away. When a person goes on a diet there is usually a finish line. What happens after that finish line? Most of the time they go right back to what they were doing before. They have learned nothing except how to be on a diet.
There is no end game. There is no end point. There is no done time.
Make sustainable life changes for a healthier you. Make your habits sustainable. Learn about nutrition. Learn about you. A lot of us have issues with our bodies. A lot of us have issues with food. Those need to be addressed in order to see success and in order to sustain the life changes we are making. Make your progress sustainable.
Take the first step to start.
Figure out why you want to change.
Don’t overcomplicate the process.
Keep going.
Have patience.
Love yourself.
Change your mindset.
The other day I was looking for a pic from the camera roll on my phone and found my little kid picture. Kindergarten or first grade. I think it’s first grade. Me. The girl with the crooked smile. The girl with the blue eyes and …
All or Nothing. Balls to the Wall. I’ll sleep when I die. You only live once. More is better. Don’t be a pussy. Any of those phrases sound familiar? I’m sure they do. I used to be that way. I used to think the more …
You have probably counted calories at some point during you life. If you have ever tried to lose weight, that is what we usually would do. Or we would go on some super restrictive diet that consisted of shakes or boiled eggs and super bland food. My coaching is different. You can eat what you want. Just less.
My coaching consists of counting macros.
Our foods are made up of Protein, Carbohydrates and Fat.
Protein – each gram consists of 4 calories. Protein is super important for our bodies. It is the building block for maintaining our muscle, repairing our muscles tissues and growing muscle. Protein also keeps us satisfied and helps to regulate our hormones. Protein consists of beef, poultry, fish, dairy, and eggs.
Carbohydrates – each gram consists of 4 calories. This is our primary source of fuel and you really don’t have to be afraid of them. They taste amazing and who wants to limit fruits? Not me. Carbs consist of vegetables, fruits, legumes, bread, rice, pastas and potatoes.
Fat – each gram consists of 9 calories. So double the amount of protein and carbs. But, your body needs fat. Fat helps regulate your hormones and protects our organs. When our hormones are in balance our bodies have a better environment in which to loss weight and/or build muscle. Fats consist of butter, oils, nuts, seeds, nut butters, coconut and avocado.
It works like this: You have to calculate your total daily needs. You can find calculators all over the internet. After that, you determine your macros. Protein is usually .8 to 1 per pound of bodyweight. You can also break down your macros into percentages. Some people like a 40% protein breakdown – some 30%. Every single person is different. I work with my clients to find what works best for them. Some people may like more carbs, some people may like more fat. It all depends on that person and their lifestyle.
Let me give you an example. Let’s say my daily need is 2000 calories and I weigh 145 pounds. I would set my protein at 145 grams per day – because 145×1=145.
I usually start my clients at 25-30 percent fat. That is the percentage of the total calories. So if my calories are 2000 and my fat is going to be 25% of that, we take 2000×25% which equals 500. We have to divide that by the number of fat grams, so because fat has 9 grams per calorie, we divide by 9. My fat grams would then be set at 55. My protein grams are 145 and my fat grams are 55. That leaves carbs. That is the rest of my total daily calories. So we already have 500 calories of fat and we have 580 calories from protein (145×4). That equals 1080. Total calories 2000 minus 1080 equals 920. So 920 divided by 4, leaves 230 grams of carbs.
To recap my macros would be as follows:
Protein – 145 grams
Fat – 55 grams
Carbohydrates – 230
So why would a person need a coach if they can just set their own macros? Well, they could go on their own and they will probably get some results. If they hire a coach, the coach is going to be able to spot patterns and behaviors that the person might not otherwise notice or want to notice. We are all really good at not seeing our own faults. Or we try to game the system. The coach is a great for accountability, motivation, consistency and guidance.
Tracking your macros gives you a better view of how you are eating. It helps you see what portion sizes look like and it sets you up for success. It’s not a diet, but more of a lifestyle.
There you have how to calculate your macros.
If you have questions, please let me know.
New Year’s Resolutions, goals, themes and habits. Do you? Should you? Only you know the answer to that. What do you really, really want spice girl? (Yes, I think I’m funny). We are all different and we are all wired differently. Something that works for …
The place you go do die. That’s what she called it. That’s what she said. Was she ready? Is anyone ever, really? She had no choice. It was what was happening. The train was rolling. There was no stopping. My heart hurt. She was so …
Every day. I look at it. I can’t help it. It’s right there, at work. On my desk. I leave it there. It reminds me to live each day. It reminds me that nothing is to be taken for granted. It reminds me that we got more time. It reminds me that we got more love.
In the hustle and bustle of life, we always worry about things. We always complain about things or get negative about things. It’s kind of human nature, or a lot of people’s nature. I try to quash it. I try to not let things get to me. Some days they do, but most days I am good about letting things go. I can’t control those things.
The holidays are here and some of us don’t have loved ones here with us. We’ve lost them. We miss them and sometimes it makes the holidays harder. But life goes on and we get through the things.
A picture really does tell a story. What is this story? In the picture, my husband of not even two years. My daughter of 11 months. We were gifted more time. We were gifted more love.
I wonder sometimes. The what ifs. The whys. You know, the questions we always ask about life things when we are uncertain or fearful, or both. So, I do. I wonder. Sometimes.
I think of all the life we have lived and all the love we have loved. You just never know. And that’s really okay.
So when I look at the picture, I am reminded that life is not guaranteed. I am reminded that we got more time and we got more love. This reminder. A good reminder. I cherish it.
It’s Sunday. I’m looking out the window in the library. Hello December. Snow. Lots of snow. The wind has subsided and we are no longer having a blizzard. December you are coming in mad. It is calm and pretty. The snow is deep. The trees …